10 Ways to Charm a Girl happy for you always

A first date is always a crucial affair, more so when you feel that she is someone whom you would want to know better. This is because first impressions can either make or break a budding relationship. So explore the following tips and go all out to charm your girl on the first date.

1. Be well groomed
   Begin with the basics and see that you are well-groomed. Nothing will catch a girl’s eye as quickly as a well-dressed, neatly-turned out man. While this implies that the externals should be spiffy, it also means that you check yourself for clean breath, and fresh body odour, and ears and nostrils trimmed of hair.
   
   
   TIP: The surest way to charm a girl is to ask her questions about herself and to listen. A lot guys don't know what to ask and find it hard to listen. You can have an advantage over all your competition and charm a girl into looking forward to meeting you again and knowing you better. Make her think about you and miss you in your absence. Download the guide to making conversation with girls 'Tell Me Honey...2000 Questions for Couples', a book from Amazon.com, available in paperback as well as an instant download ebook.
    
2. Dress according to the occasion
   A first date is generally a light affair, when two people are just getting to know each other. So if you are meeting in a café or an art gallery or simply going out for a movie, come dressed in smart casuals. Your date will feel that you are easy to be with, but not a shallow personality. While jeans and jackets are trendy, it is a good idea to avoid torn or grungy outfits, unless, of course, you specifically know that your date digs such styles. However, if you are meeting for a dinner date, you can arrive in semi-formals or even designer casuals. Keep the tuxedos and suits for more formal occasions like weddings and anniversary celebrations.
   
    
3. Chivalry is not dead
   Good manners go a long way in making a first good impression. Pick your date from her house, if possible and be sure to arrive on time. She will feel extra special and know that you are not like the other jerks, who keep their dates waiting. Remember to hold open the door for her, or pick up her things, even if you can see that she has dropped them knowingly! It is always gratifying to know that chivalry is not dead and what’s more, she is sure to be charmed by your gentlemanly ways.
    
4. Bring a gift
   Be sure not to arrive empty-handed. Pick up any small gift when you arrive for your date and your girl will be charmed by the gesture. A bunch of flowers or a box of chocolates are time-honoured first-date presents, even though you can be more adventurous and go for a silk scarf or a nice trinket. However, do not bring too expensive or ostentatious a present, as she may think you are either desperate or a show-off.
    
5. Think of unusual date ideas
   You can be innovative in picking first date ideas. Traditional first dates usually mean a dinner and a movie, but if you can surprise your girl with something new and fun to do, then she is sure to be impressed. Take her out on a picnic that you have packed or have a blast at the amusement park.  Or if you know that she is the outdoor type, go rock climbing and share the amazing view from the top. Your date will not only appreciate that you have creative ideas, but also be charmed by the fact that you went an extra mile in planning something new.

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